Source: cabbagerosesoho/marcus nispel
via: casatreschic
2 years ago
You have a right…
- To put yourself first, sometimes
- To make mistakes
- To be the final judge of your feelings and to accept them as legitimate
- To your own opinions and convicitons
- To change your mind or choose a different course of action
- To protest unfair treatment or criticism
- To negotiate for change
- To ask for help or emotional support
- To ignore the advice of others
- To say “NO.”
- To be alone, even if others would prefer your company
- Not to take responsibility for someone else’s problem
It is never your responsibility to…
- Give what you really don’t want to give
- Sacrifice your integrity to anyone
- Do more than you have time to do
- Drain your strength for others
- Listen to unwise counsel
- Remain in an unfair relationship
- Conform to unreasonable demands
- Be 100% perfect
- Follow the crowd
- Put up with unpleasant situations
- Please unpleasant people
- Bear the burden of another’s misbehavior
- Do something you really cannot do
- Love unlovable people
- Feel guilty about inner desires
- Submit to overbearing conditions
- Apologize for being yourself
- Meekly let life pass you by
- Be anyone but EXACTLY who you are
2 years ago
| Notes: 1663
"There are bad things in the world. There’s no getting away from that. But that doesn’t mean nothing can be done about them. You can’t abandon life just because it’s scary, and just because sometimes you get hurt."
- Jim Butcher (via thresca)
(via thoughtsonasunday)
2 years ago
| Notes: 2
Source: lyricalreveriesLetting go doesn’t mean we don’t care. Letting go doesn’t mean we shut down. Letting go means we stop trying to force outcomes and make people behave. It means we give up resistance to the way things are, for the moment. It means we stop trying to do the impossible; controlling that which we cannot; and instead, focus on what is possible.
2 years ago
| Notes: 444
"You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She’s not perfect - you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there.”
— Bob Marley"
- (via fuckyeahhlove)
(via lovelylea)
2 years ago
Choose paths that lead to your destiny, towards study/work/relationships that fulfill you and bring you inner joy. This way, there will be no conflict between what you HAVE to do and what you WANT to do. And ultimately, there will be no need to apologize for what you did.
